This past week has been insane for us. There's been a lot of stuff going on around us (I won't go into details since it's all a very long story and pretty complicated). Because of all the drama and stress that has been happening around us, we've decided to move out of Wil's mom's basement and into my house in Magna. We decided this last Wednesday. Today, we finally have internet installed and ready to go, so I will most likely be staying here from now on. Wil will join me tomorrow (since he has things to take care of tonight at his mom's place).
I can't believe how much stress and drama can effect our relationship. We have been sniping at each other all week. Part of it is because I've been seriously tired, but that's only part of it. I know I am just as much to blame (if not more to blame) for the sniping. I seem to snap at Wil for just about anything these days. It's ridiculous. It's crazy how easily he can get under my skin when I'm in a bad mood. Nothing too horrible has happened though, luckily. A lot of our family and friends have told us that if we hadn't been together as long as we have, our marriage would probably not have survived the disasters we've been going through.
Anyway, I'm thankful that Wil and I are always able to talk to each other and work things out. Hopefully, things will calm down soon. I used to complain about my life being boring, but I could use a boring life right now. It'd be a good change :)
There always seems to be a lot of drama when living with family when you are married! Now I don't know if that had anything to do with it, but I can tell you from personal experience that it is a HUGE strain on your relationship with your spouse! Yikes. We are still trying to heal from some of the drama that went down while living with my parents. Anyway. I understand how you feel, and I wish you luck and hope everything settles down soon. Marriage isn't easy, but it is worth it and things should go much smoother with you guys on your own away from family being constantly around. I know it definitely was a good thing for us to get out of my parents. Things are so much better between Nate and me now. Love you guys, just keep reminding yourself why you fell in love in the first place and that seems to help put everything back into perspective.
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Hey, I didn't even know you had a blog...But anyways, Im so sorry about all the crap thats been going on. It does make it easier getting away from that house, there is just something about it. We didnt ever live there so I cant really imagine how much drama you guys were dealing with but I do know just from the little drama that we do deal with it does puts a strain. I cant believe how long you delt with it. I hope everything settles down for you guys.
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